netti, like you, i had a loss at 4w4d last month - and just cos it was early, doesnt mean it didnt hurt. you have every right to be upset and to come here for support.

i too felt like my loss wasnt as bad as so many other ladies here, but i have come to the realisation that it is still going to hurt, and comparing my own hurt to that of someone else is disrespecting myself and my angel baby. yes, your loss was early, but for you for right now, that pain is real and you need to let yourself feel that hurt/anger/grief/loss.

i'm so sorry you're going through this hun

BG