Netti. I really feel for you. Don't feel ashamed because you were 4 w 4 d. I had an experience similar to yours. We had been trying to concieve for about 15 months and as soon as I saw the positive on that stick I was already thinking of names etc etc.. and I lost little Mia when she was only 7 weeks. When I wiped and saw blood, I collapsed to the floor. I was so devistated that my husband was unsure whether to try again because it took me so long to get over. I couldnt work. I never believed it would happen to me.
It takes time.
Allow youself to cry for as long as you feel necessary
Don't be scared to try again .... I now have a beautiful 3 month old daughter ... so from an aweful negative experience .... good things do happen
It really helped me to give him/her a name and say good bye.
My heart goes out to you.
Jen
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