As the girls have said Netti, a loss is a loss... ok you might feel that being 4w4d you didn't get time to 'be pg' and that those that have late term losses are far worse off, but you need to know that your feelings are still very relevant and real.

I always feel greatful that my losses were 1st tri, and that what others have gone through is much harder, but it's still a loss. YOU are still grieving and anything you feel is fine... there is no right or wrong way to deal with what your going through... please no that we are all here for you!

(PS- hope that all came out right)