My little loss

**Mel09** · September 24th, 2007, 11:10 AM

As the girls have said Netti, a loss is a loss... ok you might feel that being 4w4d you didn't get time to 'be pg' and that those that have late term losses are far worse off, but you need to know that your feelings are still very relevant and real.

I always feel greatful that my losses were 1st tri, and that what others have gone through is much harder, but it's still a loss. YOU are still grieving and anything you feel is fine... there is no right or wrong way to deal with what your going through... please no that we are all here for you!

(PS- hope that all came out right)

**klee** · September 24th, 2007, 11:42 AM

Netti - hon, my thoughts are with you, i'm so sorry for your loss. as the other ladies have said, no loss is a small loss, its still the loss of a much wanted child and thats all that matters. I've seen my sister and my sil both go through m/c's and they've seen me through my sb, yes the circumstances might be different but we are all going trhough the same emotions. just take the time you need and be kind to yourself

**Netti** · September 24th, 2007, 01:25 PM

Thankyou to everyone for your words and kind thoughts it has helped me alot, to deal with what i am going through and know that everything will be ok. I had some blood tests done, just to see what was hapening. I have been bleeding quite heavily and getting some sharp cramping, but im actually finding this good as yesterday i was worried as i wasn't getting cramps and I was worried about things coming out naturally,iykwim. When i went to the drs 2day for my btest i also got my results for another btest i had a week ago and i have low iron levels and my iron stores aren't that high, so i need to get some iron tablets have some green leafy veges, etc, so im hoping to ttc this cycle as I really want No2 and to be pregnant again

plus healthy lifestyle starts 2day!!!

Thankyou again everyone for all your support it means the world to me

**Leila** · September 24th, 2007, 03:26 PM

Netti im so sorry for you loss. You shouldn't feel ashamed for posting here at all, in fact this is the ideal place for you to be - with others who understand the sadness you have gone through. My thoughts are with you.

**ElleJay** · September 24th, 2007, 05:07 PM

BabyBella - I m/c'ed at 7 weeks and although it was almost three months ago now, I feel as though I'm still not completely over it - so I know how you feel too