Miss K, my heart goes out to you. I too lost a miracle bub concieved when the Dr's thought my DH had very very few motile sperm just prior to starting IVF. It's just too bitter that a miracle has ended this way. My heart goes out to you and your DP... We lost our miracle at only 5 weeks 1 day and I can only imagine how much greater and deeper your pain is than ours.
I wish I could say something more helpful... You are in my prayers.
Thankyou soo much ladies!! I am finding it a bit hard this afternoon I am by myself atm and DF had to g o to work today so I have till 6 before he comes home .. And I am stressing myself because of tomorrow I more scared of going under than anything else because it makes my really sick when I wake up and I keep passing out but I am hoping I won't be under for that long.. Does anybody know how long the surgery takes?
I had a D&C with my last m/c and the actual surgery does not take long at all. They only give you a light anaesthetic and most of your time in hospy will be in Recovery. I was worried about the general too because I have had one before and had lots of vomiting after that one. But I had none after the D&C, I was just really tired for the rest of the day. Don't really know though if that was because of the general or just being really really sad
Thanks Megsmum it makes me feel a little better knowing its only a light one and not a full blown one.. I just remember freaking out when I woke up in 1st stage after another op screaming for my partner then passing out then I woke up in my room then would not stop vomiting.. So atleast I can feel as though that won't be happening this time!
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