My loss

[ryders_mummy]

im so very truely sorry for your loss, you have come to the right place for the right help...

take care

[chooka26]

Hi All,
Thank you for your comments. I am still waiting for it to spontaneously abort and feel that until i am rid of it i can't grieve completely. The first few days i cried a lot and had heaps of cuddles with hubby - now his back at work and I'm trying to be strong but the first thing i want when he walks in the door is a cuddle (he doesn't mind)! I know that when i do bleed or have a D&C its going to all come rushing back - all the emotions will be their again.

I have given up hope that it will spontaneously abort as the size of embryo is now 2wks behind what it should be and its not gonna just grow a heart :-( So I feel like my body is failing me - their is no hope and my body should know that and discard of it like the Gyno says that most will do. The Gyno was against doing a D&C last week and scared me and hubby out of pushing for it, as things can go wrong and its better for the body to naturally abort it. We go back to the pregnancy assessment clinic tomorrow, for a scan and then to discuss things so hopefully something will be done as i just want it out so my body can recover!!

[Nelle]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad the drs are giving bub a chance to leave on its own, but it sounds like bub might need a nudge doesn't it. All the best for your appointment tomorrow, as you make some decisions and continue to process this.

[Samcougar]

I'm so very sorry for you and your husbands loss, My prayers are with you both and all the best for tomorrow. Be kind to yourselves

[luna moth]

Hi chooka,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your baby. I remember in the 24 hours between my scan and d & c and I was still getting morning sickness, I just cried and cried because it was so horrible, so I know how awful it feels to have pregnancy symptoms but no baby.
You are lucky to have such a wonderful and supportive husband, and I hope you have lots of other caring and wonderful people around you to help you through this time. Big hugs

[Elocin]

So sorry to hear of your loss... Look after yourself x

[chooka26]

Yes the Dr finally did something, I had another scan and saw a different Dr and he booked me in for a D&C. I had it on Wednesday and now feel that i can fully grieve. Walking around with it still inside me felt yucky and now i know my body can start to heel!