just a quick update...despite the D&C monday night, i felt it wasn't truly over....and (sorry if this is TMI) while DF and i were having a bit more than a cuddle last night, i passed the remains of my baby. fetal pole and all. we took photos, i'm bl**dy angry, how the hell could they miss that when i had so much documentation and three scans??? and i told the surgeon where the baby was implanted before he wheeled me into surgery !!!!