hun i bled for several days before passing my babies on my first two m/c's - it was probably about a week before i passed the baby the first time around, so i completely understand how you're feeling. having been through this, i understand how much you want the closure of a natural m/c, but if i were in your position now, i would be asking for a d&c - it's impossible to allow yourself to grieve fully until the physical is dealt with entirely, and i think you need to be able to grieve properly soon. limbo is just painful and making life more difficult for you is the "not knowing" when it's going to happen

huge hugs Megsie - maybe go back and see your doctor and talk to them about taking steps toward a d&c. take care hun