Hello Megsie,

I'm too waiting to fully miscarry. Since the end of October. It's been a long wait - definately have learnt something about patience. With occasional bleeding, cramping, hospital visits etc. I've really resisted having a d&c as I've had one before and don't want to again. However the up-side for me has been that my body actually re-absorbed the baby, seen through ultrasounds, which was a great comfort to me.
However you're right to consider how long you can go before you need resolution. I have a partner and toddler son to consider so its been a lot of emotional juggling. But if you feel it is something your body can do with time then give it a go.

It seems like a long road of sadness and wanting your body to resolve and get back to a normal cycle. But again its been a comfort to me knowing my body didn't 'reject' the baby - It was so wanted. However with time it naturally feels right to move on and seriously consider what you need to do that. So be gentle with yourself. Really gentle. Let the feelings that rise up within you do so and acknowledge them.

I have an inkling of what you are feeling. M/c sucks!

Issa