BG, big hugs hun. Of course it matters. It is still devastating no matter how far along you are. Especially when you've been waiting such a long time.

I wonder if they have done any investigation into why you might be m/c? I know there are many different situations so this might not be at all relevant. But a friend of mine fell pg after 5 years of trying, 3 on IVF. She had an early m/c but the fs thought it was a big step forward (to have even conceived) and did some bloods and things. Turns out her immune system had attacked the embryo and with immuno-suppressants she wouldn't be able to carry. Next cycle she fell pg with twins who are now 2 1/2. Maybe this is something you can discuss with your fs?

I certainly hope that you get some answers and some really good news soon. It has been a long journey for you. That pot of gold at the end of the rainbow can't be too much further away.

Take care hun.