thanks ladies

i'm planning on trying to get some immunology testing done (if it wasn't already done - my first FS visit i walked away with a pathology request form that was overflowing with test requests - and had 15 vials of blood collected!). i will push the issue as i can't keep going through this pain

odette - i've had endometrium checked every cycle we've done when follicle development has been checked - it's always between 13 and 17mm - apparently they like it to be a minimum of 7mm - so i'm good on that one.

i just need to build myself up to telling the FS that i want more investigation - he's one of the pioneers of ivf in aus, so i feel like questioning him with all his experience is like saying i know better than him - which i don't - but i need to know why this is happening! if i'm bound to not have children i need to know so i can grieve and move on.