Thank you everyone for your beautiful words. I haven't cried for a few days, but when someone comes up to me and says sorry, then I cry. As well as feeling empty, I also feel lonely, that is a strange one, although I have my son here with me on hols, and hubby here at night, I still feel lonely.
I find myself still counting the weeks, but instead of saying I am, its now I would of been, like this Friday 16th, I would of been 17 weeks, is that natural that I do that....
Anyway I just wanted to thank everyone for there kind, sweet words, and for being my ears. You guys truely rock.
I wonder if any of you really know how much you mean to people like me, who have had a miscarriage, or for the people who want to share their good news. You all deserve s great big
Kylie, what you are feeling is so completely normal hun. After I lost Joshua, I felt like I was so alone, not one word anyone said made me feel better. After all, we lose such a big part of ourselves, it's like a big gaping hole.
I know exacltly what you mean about thinking/saying 'I would have been so many weeks'. My due date is on 12 Feb 09 and almost every week I remind myself of how many weeeks I would have been along. My psychologist told me it's completely natural, as your body still thinks it's pregnant, and the day you stop feeling like this will be on your due date. Then, in some part, a sad chapter can be finally closed.
Big warm hugs to you hun , I hope you continue to feel a little bit better every day, I know we'll never forget.
Love
Beata xxx
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, I hope you continue to feel a little bit better every day, I know we'll never forget.
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