hey hun,
i am another rare one who has had a molar preg. My story is very similar. Missed miscarriage at 12 weeks. I had my d&c last november (tho my experience was alot better than yours - mine all went very smoothly apart from the infection i got after, but that was easily cured with some antibiotics.) Pathology results came back partial molar.

Hun, dont expect your hcg level to be zero. It wont be. Mine took 8 weeks to get to zero, and that is reasonably quick for a molar. You'll probably have weekly tests until it gets down. Dont be concerned. as long as every test shows a drop in numbers thats all they look for.

I dont know how much your doc has told you and i dont want to scare you, but they do suggest (very strongly) a waiting period before ttc again. Its normally 6 months for a partial mole. I waited 10 months since my levels got to zero and i have just found out i am 4 weeks pregnant. I am very scared about it being another molar, but trying to be positive.

You will get thru this hun. And u already have two healthy boys so u will go on to have another baby. Izzy- please pm me if you want to talk more. I know some good online support groups that really do help.

Stay strong