Hi mewithaby, what a great vision!
What an ordeal you are going through. A partial molar is not easy to deal with let alone the other losses withi your family.
Hoping that you reach zero this week, I'm hoping to in two weeks. It's just not fair.
With regards to your periods, I am sure it's stress you are enduring. Stress can do so many different things to your body. You really do need to take time to grieve for your loss, and I need to take my own advice here, as I too have just "dealth with it". Ive been told it's not a good thing to do, as it will affect you later, whether it be next month or 5 years down the track. You have been a rock for your husband, now it's time for you.
I'm hoping 2009 brings you loads of hapiness, and you are able to become pregnant and enjoy the whole 9 months, sickness and all!
Plese update on your blood test when you can, thanks for sharing your story with us.
Tke care.