Hi Sadwombat - i hope you're starting to feel better! I had a D&C in Dec for my first preg, lost at 11 weeks. I had some embedded tissue in my uterus which became infected and 10 days later i had a second D&C - i know the feeling!!! It's awful enough to lose your bubba, have surgery, let alone go back in for some more fun and games!! I hope they've taken care of you and perhaps you can take this time to grieve a little. THough it's completely overwhelming i know! The thing i learned is that you can only take things at your own pace. Don't let ANYONE tell you when or how to grieve.

As a nurse, my thoughts are with you. As a mama with a lost baby, my heart goes out to you SadWombat. Hope all is getting slowly better