Big hugs to you. It is incredibly hard to get past your own grief when seemingly everyone around you is pregnant. However happy you may be for them, it still makes your heart ache for the little ones you have lost.
All I can say is that time does help. Unfortunately it takes too damn much time, and our angels' due dates are always especially difficult.
I have one of the sweetest DHs in the world, but he doesn't understand the level of my grief either. Obviously our husbands have lost babies too, but I don't think anyone but you can really understand the pain a mother feel.
Im so sorry for your losses xx grief is so hard because everyone grieves in different.ways n different times. That's y we feel so alone.
Being pregnant does indeed help the sting go away of losing two babies but it also brings along its own set of fears n worries that seem to replace it. I'm finding that out atm.
find one friend that u can open up to, even if they don't understand totally. Sharing the burden usually helps you feel less weighed down.
I hope that u get another little babe soon. Hang in there n keep busy if u can
I am sorry for your losses. I understand what you are going through. Its so hard especially when you have to go through it more than once. I have times where the weight of my losses is completely unbearable and then I have times where Im totally fine, so I get what you are saying there. I still cant look at a pg woman or even a baby without tearing up though.
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and that you have no one to share your pain with. I know you will find much love and support here on Bellybelly x
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