hey guys,

looking for some advice. my DF and i have lost 2 unplanned angels in the last year. I dont want to wait too long to try again - i guess you dont really know what you could have had when its gone. know what i mean?
he would like to wait a little longer - i just feel the longer we wait the longer i will have to wait to go through a potential mc again.
we are going to be referred to a good ob to check us both out - just wondering if any of you had any suggestions for gentle "prodding" to get him to be happy to start ttc?
dont want to be charting or anything - i just want to not be stopping anything from happening, knowing that it could happen? i just think that is so magical.
we (well I) already have a gorgeous little girl from my previous relationship, but my now partner is much more her father than her "real" dad. she is with us 99% of the time and they absolutely adore each other.
i'm sure he will come around soon, and say, ok baby, lets go for it! but in a way i kinda need to know when - it will help me get through losing this one.... any ideas ladies?