Sonya, I am so very deeply sorry for your loss.

There are no words that I can say, all I can give you is my understanding, and my tears. Be as self-absorbed as you need to be, nobody will hold that against you.

I was talking with BG on msn when I saw this thread. There were many, many words said that aren't repeatable here. We share your hurt, your anger, and the outrage at the absolute bloody unfairness that life has asked so many of us to face.

Take care, Sonya. Know that we are thinking of you.

BW