Jade, I am so truely sorry to read of the loss of your precious baby Tyler. My heart goes out to you. I understand what a dark place you are in right now. Just know that we are all here for you my love.
I am so sorry for the loss of your little boy, Tyler. I know exactly how you feel... there are no words to fill the loss you've experienced. I only want to let you know that you're not alone, Jade.
Jade, I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son Tyler. I cried and cried as I read your story last night but just couldn't reply at the time because it is so similar to my story. We struggled for 2 years to fall pregnant and eventually did on Clomid only to lose our precious son Cooper to a cord accident, the cord was around his neck. We found out at an ultrasound and it was the biggest shock as I didn't think anything like this could happen. We also went home where we phoned family. We went back to the hospital that night and the induction began. Just like you the epi only worked on one side so I too felt all the pain and felt my little boy being delivered. We had his hand and foot prints done and we took photos and held him until the pain was too much to bear.
I hope that you can find some strength next Tuesday to read that beautiful poem to your boy. Don't be too upset with yourself if you are unable to. What you are about to do goes beyond anything that any mother should ever have to do - bury their own child. This is not good-bye, it is see you soon. You will see Tyler in your dreams, and hold him in your heart forever. I hope your little angel has found Cooper and all the other angel babies and is playing peacefully amongst the stars.
You are going to be hurting so much, every breathe will hurt and you will wonder how you go on in this world that no longer has your loved one. Make sure you have lots of love and support from family and friends and reach out if you need help. Unfortunately there are so many of us that have lost our bubs and we can help you through this heartbreaking journey. You may feel like you are numb and that is because you have so many emotions running around your body at the moment that you don't know how to feel. Cry, scream, do whatever you need to do to grieve for your little boy. Don't rush yourself, take each step, each day at a time.
Jade I'm so sorry to hear of Tyler's passing. It is so unfair that you had him for such a short time. I hope the road to healing becomes clear when the time is right
Jade, i am so very sorry for the passing of your son Tyler. Thankyou for having the strength to share your story with us. Your pain is unimaginable, I will be thinking of you and your family and friends on tuesday
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm in tears myself. I don't know how you are doing it. Thinking of you on Tuesday.
Don't forget that we are all here for you. Any time.
i'm sitting here in tears I'm so so sorry. After all you went through to get Brodie, to have Tyler given so readily and then so brutally snatched away it's just, it's unspeakably cruel I've lit a candle for your sweet son. I'm thinking of you.
Thank you so much for all your kind words of support it means alot.
Sorry that I confused you when the funeral is we had the funeral last Tuesday I wrote my story 3 days after he passed. We got to see out little Tyler one more time. We told him how much we love him and wished that he was still here. I just kept holding his beautiful hands. We read him a story which was nice. The story went with him as well as the words DH and I wrote for the funeral and the teddy that we bought for him. I managed to speak the words I wanted to at the funeral I asked Tyler to give me strength to speak and he must of. I am so glad that I spoke I would have regretted if I didn't. I had a really bad day on Friday. The last 2 days have been ok still thinking about him every second. I'm not looking forward to the next really bad day but I know one will come and it will probably be Wednesday which was the day I was going to be induced. DH is back to work on Monday I am not looking forward to that at all I will have Brodie but it's when he's asleep I will be a little lost. I am currently reading empty cradle broken heart and I am finding this good actually I am almost finished it. I know I have to take each day as it comes.
We have talked about counselling and we want to but not just yet maybe in a couple of months.
My heart goes out to you. I am sorry you are going through this. Tyler is a very special child to have such a wonderful loving family.
I too am going through the horrible process, I haven't yet had the strength to pick up the phone and call someone but I do find by being in here and talking to others helps. You can cry without someone watching, you can say what you're feeling without judgement AND you can talk to women who have been through the same or similar things.
I don't have anyone around me who has been through this and try as they may my friends cannot understand the depth and intensity of the pain you feel, so BB has been a life saver of sorts.
I have not heard of the book you are reading but I hope it offers you some sort of relief/comfort.
Jade, I'm glad that you found the strength to read what you wanted to at Tyler's funeral....he would be so proud of his mummy I will be thinking of you this week as your DH goes back to work. Remember if you are feeling alone and need to talk we are all here to listen
Jade I am so so sorry for your loss. I'm so glad you found the strength to read at Tyler's funeral, well done. Please dont forget as the others have mentioned, if you ever need to talk do not hesitate to post here at BB, we are always willing to listen and offer our support.
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I'm so so sorry. After all you went through to get Brodie, to have Tyler given so readily and then so brutally snatched away it's just, it's unspeakably cruel
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