I too had been pregnant, along with 4 other close friends. We were all due about the same time (May to June 08). I lost my son at 15 weeks (16-10-08), and it still hurts like hell. What's great about you, is that despite your ordeal, you still sincerely care about your friend.

Just be yourself. It will all be revealed anyway, and best to come from you. It will be more arkward for her that you. Just try to be honest about your feelings, and the anger and hurt will soon ease.

I pray for you and wish you all the best. Take time for yourself to heal and know that your emotions will be all over the place for a while...some days angry and resentful, some days "why me?", and others content and greatful for the good things in your life.....

love, Jenny