When do you get over your loss?

[fi1980]

Oh Honey

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Like everyone else has said it is a difficult and unpredictable road to recovery and it is different for each of us. I was a mess for the first month after my loss in October and then I seemed to pick myself up and get on with things, however, now I seem to be struggling with it again. The loss of a baby is not something that you can rush and not something that you can just get over so please be kind to yourself and take as long as you need to heal.

Anything that you did in your past is irrelevent and it makes me so angry to think that someone who is supposed to care about you would say such stupid, cruel and totally untrue things.

The girls on this forum are all wonderful and will help you and support you through this difficult time, you can always rely on bellybelly! You might also want to consider seeing a counsellor to help you deal with your feelings.

Thinking of you

Big hugs

Fi

[munchy]

Oh Honey

i am so sorry to hear of your loss and i totally agree with people it was no way you fault and never think that it was there was nothing you could have done so please dont blame yourself. grief is a long and hard rollercoaster full of tears anger hurt heartbreak emptyness all different emotions rolled into one and some of us find it hard to cope it has being a year and half since i lost my little girl and even now i find it difficult i to see a counsellor have being for 6 months now and i am on anti depressants as i just got to low never had any energy always thinking bad thoughts and thinking i was worthless and having anixiety attacks and just feeling sad all the time and couldnt move forward from the past i think it takes time so dont beat yourself up and it might help you to see a councellor if you need to talk it through just give yourself time honey really hope that you feel better soon.

Munchy xxx