EM- I know exactly how you feel. DH, DD and I went for our 12w scan and discovered the baby did not grow past 8w. I was so upset and went through the same heartache as you. After we had the news I went to see a midwife who explained what would happen next. While I was waiting in her office, I could hear a lady in the other room on the fetal heart monitor talking about the little S*** inside her. It made me cry even more.
It has been 4 weeks now since I found out the terrible news. I understand now that there was something wrong with the development of the baby and this is just natures way.
Your doctor is right, the chances of it happening again are very slim. You may feel you don't want to try again, but it is still so soon after your loss. It may take you 1 month to want to try again but it may also take you 6 months to try again. There is no time restrictions, you just try again when you both feel comfortable.

I really encourage you to stay with Belly Belly. It helped me enormously, whether I decided to post or just read. I have also stck with my friends in our belly budies group. I developed great friendships with these ladies and wasn't about to loose them now!

Keep your chin up, you are a woman and will get through this in your own time. Now we both have little munchkins looking down on us.

xxx