Will this ever end...I want to give the sadness a chance to lift

[scooby]

Hi Lindy
Men DEFINATELY do this different from us!!! My DH was exactly the same all he talked about was work and he wouldnt tell anyone about my ectopic and he was almost annoyed that i had told family (not like you cant?!!) Any way a week ago he had a bit too much to drink and i was a little upset and he spilled everything, telling me he knew it was a girl and he was thinking ahead to weddings etc. and the most painful part for him was knowing he couldnt do anything and i was the one going through the trauma of surgery and it made me realise it was just as hard for him only for some reason they keep it all inside, i think if anything women are blessed in the way that we do share things and it helps us heal, they just seem to bottle it up. i really hope one day soon your DH does this for you Lindy i think the thing they need to realise that by having that reaction it makes it harder for us, we just need to know that they care, nothing more or less.
Take care Lindy. Big hugs

[ljv]

I just wanted to thank everyone for their support on this site. Some of you have been through far worse than 2 miscarriages - I cried when I read many of the stories. You are all so strong. I thank you for not making me feel like I should get on with things because my loss was less than yours.

I seem to be physically recovered now - after 7 weeks the bleeding has finally stopped. I don't know if we will try again soon - but at nearly 38, I guess that I don't have too much time to think about it!

[bettyboop]

Hi Lindy, sorry to hear all you have been through,i hope each day is getting alittle easer.You are not old, we have just lost our little angle and i will be 41 soon and we hope to TTC again soon. Sending you a big hug.

[chris]

Hi Lindy
Its great to hear that you have recoverd, that is one thing that will help you move on and get better emotionaly.
I am 37 and we are TTC, we were told by the Dr to try in between visits to see him. We know about all the risks that we are taking (due to the Ashermans syndrome) but I will do anything to have a baby.

I hope I fall pregnant b4 I have to see him in Feb.
Take care
Chris