M2C,
I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of you and your DH, and DD... I was heartbroken for you all when I read your news, I'm so sorry....
huge hugs,
dd asked me today if we are going to " put another baby in the belly"
and i couldnt answer her! i really dont know if i want to try again
i have been doing this in total of 10 yrs, in them 10yrs i have had 4 pregnancies and got 1 child from them and i feel totally blessed that i have her. BUT i feel tired and i know that my experience is no where near as tough as some, but i just dont know what i want to do. when i lost my first 2 babies ( 8yrs ago) i knew straight away that i wanted to keep trying no matter what, but it took me nearly 7 yrs to just fall pregnant this time round and then to lose bubba at 9 wks, i have never lost a baby that far into a pregnancy.
[QUOTE=mummy2chloe;1613406] " it was just a miscarriage, wasnt like it was born or anything"
Ohhh, I am gobsmacked somebody, let alone family would say something like that. Truly, when you have experienced a loss, you don't need comments like that. It was a baby - your baby! I just don't get it..... I'm sorry to say this but most people who haven't experienced a loss don't understand........
I truly am sorry for what you are going through. It is a difficult, confusing, sorrowsome, self-indulgent (so it should be), consuming time .
In relation to trying to carry on your normal, everyday life.... I couldn't for ages. I couldn't even go to the shopping centre in fear of bumping into children/pg people.... take each day as it comes. If you can't get out of bed - then don't. Do what you need to do to cope.
Big hugs and all the best to you and your family. I am sure Bubba g will meet many of our angels to play with......
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