ok Ladies I have managed to fill out forms etc and lodge with centrelink. I have been accepted for Careers allowance but not payment, and am now protesting that they back payed me 2 days instead of 12 weeks. I had to wait for reports to come in so it took longer then there period, but this was not explained to me.
In the process now of registering for Disability SA and am still waiting on a report from an assessment we had , its been over a month now and I am growing impatient.
The reasons are:

In 2 weeks Hamish will get a new teacher, without the reports and the help of Autism SA there is no support in place for him at school.
His behavior this week last week has been really bad, he has received steps at school every day last week. At home he has been unable to concentrate and has started pooing his pants again.
So basically I am trying to jup through all the hoops i can but my hands are tied till we get this report. I am wanting to book Hamish in for OT and was hoping the back pay would help pay for a bulk lot of visits,,,,,,,,,,,grrrrrrrrrrr

I thought that getting the diagnosis was the end, but in reality its the start of another roller coaster ride.

Sorry for my rant, I am tired and feeling yuck today and a little helpless. Trying to look after my other children as well as Hamish. Its lik I have two toddlers at the moment...

on a side note has any one had any success in a change of diet etc...