I read every single letter of info that was available, because with any condition that has psychologists attached to it, there are always many differing opinions, but the best thing you can do is to talk to other parents with the same problems. There is a lot of help out there with a lot of lovely people that genuinely want to help, but unless you are very lucky you will have to find most of it yourself, so other parents that have travelled that road before you will be your best bet. We absolutely refuse to believe that our daughter can't beat autism, which is a different sort of communication disorder, and she is very slowly, but surely making improvements. Every step is a fight, but its a victory and we cherish it more for it being harder won.