Thanks so much guys, it means so much to me and I feel silly that in comparison, its not something serious or life threatening. I told John and feel completely deflated as he went on about labelling kids with stuff and seemed really blaze about the whole thing, so I feel a bit knocked for six, I was hoping for his support more. But like I said to him, I have been parenting Marisa full-time for the last four years so I know what it's been like and have seen this in action alot more than he has - i'll still persue it as I think it will be a huge help. She's so quiet around others that it builds up and gets let out at me, in that she will talk and talk without stopping for breath LOL!!! I can't think for myself sometimes!