thread: And then there was 4 - Mateauz journey with Cerabal palsey

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  1. #1
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    Feb 2008
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    Maz, have you ever thought that maybe Mateuz and Wilhelm too, were given to you because you would be the best mum to nurture them and love them, despite or maybe because of their difficulties?

    big hugs to you

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    Aug 2007
    Melbourne
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    Im TOTALLY with Dragonfly on this one and was going to say the same thing...
    Your little boys are here for a reason AND they were given to you because you can help them be what they need to be.

    You are one special woman, reading your journey makes me think and realise and reflect over my last 9 months with MJ and i just shake my head. I had no idea what you have been going through, it makes my whines seem so insignificant really...

    Thank you again for sharing this amazing story and your raw feelings and emotions - you are so brave

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    Sep 2007
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    Maz you are an amazing strong woman. I really admire your strength & determination.
    I really don't think I could go through half what you & your family have been through. And you are all still there together every day.
    I know it is so hard for you guys, but to me, you have the perfect family.
    Your babies have the best mother in the world for them. You.

  4. #4
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    Mar 2007
    VIC
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    Maz, you have nothing to be jealous of.... Mat is ahead of a lot of the babies from our belly buddy group. It is me who is jealous of you and Mat!

  5. #5

    Nov 2008
    Country Victoria
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    Thanks Maz every time i read a new post from you my respect and admiration for you and your family increases! You're amazing people with incredible strength thank you agaiin so much xxx

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    Oct 2003
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    oh gawd.... I may have to get on a plane soon and give you the biggest damn squishy cuddle I can. will have to do for now.

  7. #7
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    Feb 2008
    In my own little world
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    Maz, I had no idea! You are such a strong and outstanding woman!

    Reading about being in the hospital took me back, but even Veygas being in hospital for 3 days seems so insignificant now compared to what you and Mateauz have endured! I know how hard it is leaving the rest of your family at home, being without the immediate love and support, and send you big for that too!

    You are amazing and admirable and your love for your family shines through!

    xxx

  8. #8
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    Nov 2008
    Cairns FNQ
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    This is the first time I have sat and read your whole story Maz...You are incredible and an inspriation. If I can be half the mama you are to your special blessings (all 4 of them!!) I will have succeed.


    Much Christmas love to you all.

  9. #9
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    Sep 2007
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    Maz, have you ever thought that maybe Mateuz and Wilhelm too, were given to you because you would be the best mum to nurture them and love them, despite or maybe because of their difficulties?
    Truer words have never been spoken.

    My grandmother was a very spiritual person and told me that not only do we choose our lives paths before we enter this world, but we also choose our family and the roll that they play. Your children chose you because they knew you would be the best person to help them through this life lesson. You are their guardian Angel walking this earth.

    I have cried more reading your story than I have in a long time. Both through the pain and heartache as well as the joy of hearing that Mateuz would survive. Words can not thankyou enough for sharing your story, it has touched me greatly.

    Big big to your entire family.

  10. #10
    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
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    Maz, its getting sooo close to Mateuz's first birthday, and you have been reliving all the past year in this brilliant de-brief.

    So I wanted to TELL you to remember to be extra, extra kind to yourself. Leave the bloody overlocker alone for a night and have a glass of wine and a bath instead! Keep on crying and letting it all out. You can get really productive with crying too. When I'm reliving stuff from deep down, I try to take deep breaths in and on the OUT breath I visualise black sand exiting from my lungs and the next breath (sob) a clear blue one. Yeah I'm nuts but it works for me.....

    Love ya chick xoxoxoxo