You poor thing! I would be upset too! I am guessing you don't live in the same house as the cat? So it will be only immediate family that know the cats name? And you never know you may be having a boy! If you have a daughter she will outlive the cat. I would say ask them to change it but if you dint end up using it that might peeve them off a little!! Big hugs and good luck for the rest of your pregnancy.