I had to learn how to decipher what DH was saying about my naming suggestions he either said an outright "no" or a "it's not bad" but he never loved a name. I was waiting to find the name he loved and realised it would never come as he just couldn't imagine our DS until he was here with us so thinking about a name to suit him was impossible for him. The best he could do was a "it's not bad" and that's the name we went with and now we can't imagine him by any other name.