I liked Elise or Elspeth, DH liked Sophie. And we both hated the other's choice!

It took hours and hours and hours in a car to get three names we were both OK with. We then went through them again the next day and DH ruled out the name we eventually decided on. We were stuck with "what could be long for Ellie?" for a long time because none of my suggestions were OK. And we decided that we liked Faye but couldn't name our daughter that. So we went back to the other name.

But it was sitting down for hours and just going through literally hundreds of names, every name I could think of (the name we both ended up loving was just a name I flung out because it was some new thought and DH didn't think it was too nasty or silly).

And we have middle names for family. If it's "for someone" then it's harder to refuse!