i would go with Ashlyn.. great name btw
Thanks Holley. DP loves it as well. We only know one person called Ashlyn and she is an ex gf of one of our friends. WE think its a nice twist on Ashley even though we love that name too.

Thanks everyone else for your suggestions. I think we will end up spelling it Ashlyn so there is no mistaking the pronunciation.

Now to find a middle name to go with it....