None of our children will have any family names. I want them to have their own name. Plus they have alot of grandparents and great parents and other family members that they could be named after, that if we did use one, then the others will feel left out.
Quite rude of your MIL to get cranky over such a silly thing.
It's that exact reason that no one knows the names we've picked for our bubby. We love them, and if we tell someone and they make a fuss of the name, then it will spoil it, and I'll want to change it. My MIL is contactly trying to drag the names out of me. Then when I don't tell her she say they must be bad then if you don't want to share. Not bad, we just want a suprise for everyone when bubby is born. Geez what's th big deal about knowing it's name beforehand.