Grrr what a witch. She should be thrilled her maiden name is included! On the other hand, I adore MIL stories because mine is so awful so it helps to hear other people's LOL!

Our first son will have my father's name as his middle name (Graham). We are not telling dad - it will be a surprise!!

This is because both DH and I adore my dad. DH and dad get on really well, go out together etc. And dad is an incredible and inspiring man.

Mum doesn't get a name, because her name is already my middle name. Ditto DH with his father.

MIL is a total ************** so nope nothing there! DH and I agree on that.

Good luck!!