Coming from a person who has had to spell their name out for people their whole life - it's not a big deal. Mine isn't spelt an unusual way, but isn't overly common - unless you are Greek.

And it certainly hasnt harmed me having to spell it out - big friggin deal.

You just form the opinion that other people are the idiots for not being able to spell it

You go with the spelling that you like best - and stuff everyone else. I've never bothered with them. And I've learnt that even if you spell a name how its pronounced - people will still ask for clarification of pronunciation so you can't win either way.