Yes my friend knew my name, I had it for 8 years and then she named her baby something different and then CHANGED it a few weeks later, to the name I had told her in confidence. Luckily I don't see her anymore (I just dont need friends like that) so Im using it for the next bub anyway!! But she did it purely because it was my choice, she was alwa;ys like that, and used to try to take the guys I liked, because i liked them...