when i was pregnant with dd we were discussing names with my family and i told them that if we had a girl we would be calling her chloe lacey (lacey is my mums maiden name) and sil said that chloe was the name they had picked for a girl and we decided that who ever had a girl first got dibs on it.When chloe passed away sil was so happy that we had the name as it suited her perfectly. I'm lucky though have the best sil in the world. but have heard plenty of horror stories.