which of these do you like?

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

Love imogen, a friends DD is imogen, imi for short


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[Jellyfish]

Bit biased as my DD is Imogen but still love that name.

[Tinks]

I can't decide. I love them both although I'd probably lean more towards Gretchen because Imogen is quite popular atm. I'll vote Gretchen lol.

[NaeNae]

I love Imogen too I think its a really sweet name x

[Tuesday's Child]

I don't mind Gretchen but it sounds and looks a bit harsh for me.

That's exactly why DH doesn't like it.

I can't decide. I love them both although I'd probably lean more towards Gretchen because Imogen is quite popular atm. I'll vote Gretchen lol.

And that's why I prefer Gretchen.

[hannanat]

Imogen.

[~TT40~]

I voted Gretchen cause of the uniqueness.

could you just use Lilly has a middle name - still after your mum, just not as obvious.

[Elocin]

Gretchen. Love it!!

What about Greta? Sounds / looks a bit 'softer'??

[AnyDream]

Imogen was on our list for a while.

Re middle names, make a deal and let DH "win" on the first name, in return you get to choose the second name . Then go ahead and choose one of your mum's names or a name based on a word that evokes her memory in some way.