Hmm so far the close carrier is doing it for me

Allycat - did you find the sleepy wrap a real PITA? Or is it something that you get used to very quickly?

I do like the idea of the clips on the others mentioned as that would feel more secure for me + I don't really have time to try to tie it up when I have a toddler to run after aswell IYKWIM

thanks ladies. Keep them coming even if its already been mentioned, plz let me know your opinion