Thanks ladies. I think it is a reaction to all the changes in her life over the last couple of months. Moving across the country, starting day care 3 days a week, different house, climate etc etc combined with fact that she doesn't have the tools to deal with frustration or speech to convey. Perhaps that is why the 1,2,3 and normal distraction tools are not being effective at the moment. I have been looking into parenting classes to help deal with her personality :S

Thank you for your kind words. She is generally a lovely girl, very sensitive, caring. Loves to share, hug, shake hands, play with anyone. Just all too many changes at once - I know how she feels