Hi Dan, these little ones can be confusing can't they? I'm sorry you have to give up bf but congrats on making it to 9 months, fantastic job hun!

Ok here is what we do:

Bottles - Elena has three per day of around 240ml each. One before brekky, one late afternoon and one before bed.

Brekky - either rafferty's cereal with fruit or fruit by itself or oats. Fruits she likes are pear, apple, banana, watermelon, rockmelon, peaches, mango.
Lunch- pasta or rice or chick peas with vegies plus yoghurt or toast or cruskit
Dinner- chicken or beef with vegies or pasta/rice if she didn't have it for lunch. Fruit or rice cracker/cruskit if still hungry. Vegies that she likes are pumpkin, sweet potato, white potato, corn, zucchini, carrot, spinach, broccoli, cauliflower and about to try peas.

I have the womens weekly baby and toddler food recipes which is pretty good and has lots of ideas. I'm probably not too adventurous with food yet, I'm going to try some steamed fish tonight and hopefully she will like that.