Just thought I'd pop in and say that having a toddler come in to your bed through the night isn't so bad even with a new bub in the house.

The baby crying next to us only woke DS for the first couple of nights.. after that he slept through all her wake-ups if he was in our bed.

I'll repeat what I say everywhere - just do what works. If the toddler needs the extra comfort (and this might increase when new bub arrives) then there's no harm in going along with it. It's not a 'habit' that will last forever. DS pretty much sleeps through now, but still occasionally wakes and brings himself in to us.

Must admit it's lovely having the whole family in the same bedroom in the mornings