Hmm, I was told 3 meals with no feeds at that age (just 3 feeds a day and 3 meals seperate of feeds)! As it is, DS still has a feed for most of his lunch.

I can't tell you how much DS took because he'd eat 3 carrot sticks or munch on my apple, how many spoons is that? But by him self-feeding from the start we introduced solids at the pace DS set and due to his unco-ordination at the start he got more milk than if he were spoon-fed. He now eats everything and his co-ordination is very much improved, the HV says he is eating really well and only my mother criticizes what we are doing, but she as no idea what she's talking about.