Thanks lis.
It is a whole new world.

And why it is that there are some people out there (not meaning you girls - you have been very nice) that are hell bent on making you feel incompetent and bad at mothering!!!

I wish dd would go 8pm - 8am no feed! lol
i have tried to drag her 5am to later (was 3 am so that is an improvement i guess) but she is grumpya s until she gets bb's