I get where you are coming from, but I have to say I've been guilty of complaining about DS's sleep on many occassions (and still do about his early wakeups even though he sleeps through most nights, and I've got it pretty good on the whole). I hate to say it, but I do think it is kinda human nature to complain about things that we find difficult, and lets face it sleep deprivation is difficult.

What I hate is people who offer advice or solutions or go as far as to tell you 'you have to do this'. And yes, trying to label a baby as 'good' or 'bad' based on how they sleep is ridiculous! How can a baby be 'bad'? They're helpless little beings who need their parents, not mischevious, naughty little things who set out to make their parents lives difficult.