Well put MantaRay! you are so very right.

Don't get me wrong I have no problem talking about it, or listening or giving advice when asked....No problem at all!! It is great to talk things through.

But I'm "tired" of people always talking about it like babies should sleep when they want & wake when they want etc...and they must have a problem if they don't and lets change them and torture ourselve's!!!! at some point we need to accept things the way they are and work with it or around it...if you know what I mean. errrr I don't know I'm not as good with my words as some.