Sarah I was really worried about this as well and am finding that I am slowly adjusting. At first It was so weird having someone to care for that not much got done. Now I am trying to stay on top of things by doing bits and pieces whenever I get the chance. I try to get up just before she does to shower, and then do so really quickly with the monitor turned up LOUD. The best advice I have had though is sleep when she does, not always easy but a short nap here and there makes the housework etc seem not so much of a problem. Also if you can afford to we get our house cleaned every second week so its only basic maintenance and washing etc that needs doing.