Ok Can i just say, I didnt ask for my parenting techniques to be judged regarding smacking. I know some people dont agree with it and its fine.

Smacking is used as a deterant. and only used if i feel it is the last thing. A smack will normally stop her in what she is doing so yes if that is hurting me or her sister then that i will smack. It by no means is it i want to hurt you smack, it is more of a snap out of it and it distracts her enough to make her stop for the second i need to gain control over the situation.


ETA- Divvy will be getting that book, thankyou