ARGH! I feel terrible for you, having her cry so young will not do her any good and having you hear her upset this close to birth will not do you any good! I'm sorry i don't have any advice but my DF suggested we let Scarlet cry when she was younger and i simply gave him my most stern look and said 'no', He hasn't said anything like it since.

If i were you i would ignore your DH for a whole day & ask him how he likes you "proving your point" . I don't suggest doing that though. I'm just mean.