Your baby wont go to a nursery at all (if you are public). They get you to look after your baby all the time. If you are very sick or something then they will offer to look after the baby so you can rest. Kameron was in neo-natal nursery for 2 days and never had a dummy. None of the newborns in there did.

Swapping the dummies very much sounds like a load of crap. Maybe your friend is just trying to use scare tatics. I think it is time you listened to someone else or no one at all

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